Maybe I’m not seeing this from the perspective of a mother, but from the perspective of a daughter.
If I saw my mom making passive aggressive posts on facebook, I’d stay the hell away too.
Do I think the daughter in question needs to take responsibility for her son, HELL YES, but again that is her choice and if chooses not to, then that’s on her. Berating her and guilt tripping her are not going to make her want to come back. Trust me I know.
There are people in this world that hate being pushed and pushed. They hate being nagged at. I know when my used to pester me about finding out what was bothering me, I would shut down.
So please, stop being an attention whore and LET IT GO!!!!